What Spontaneity!

When my monthly period cycle was finally back to normal I felt ready to try again….We tried and tried and tried but month after month all I saw were negative pregnancy tests.

And so we stepped up our game LoL.

We moved to having sex daily, then moved to every other day, we did it more than once a day during ovulation. We thought phone apps would assist in when to time ovulation. I even elevated my legs at least for 20 mins every time after ejaculation🤞🏾

Our once fun, spontaneous, romantic and pleasurable activity turned into a timed, very rigid, unexciting and less spontaneous activity. I literally stopped lovemaking for sexual pleasure, and simply focused on lovemaking for baby making. Sex became prescriptive, it was dictated by charts, calendars, phone apps instead of foreplay, sexy lingerie and love notes.

From sexy lingerie & games to schedules & apps